Posts Tagged ‘Romance’

my friend, with benefits

20Nov15

I moved two years ago. There’s a story, but I don’t want to tell it yet. I found myself in a new place, with very few friends. I went on my trusty dating site, and had about the same level of success – almost none. But I did make one good friend. It’s been about […]


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are looks important?

04Nov12

The sad truth is that, while beauty really is only skin-deep, those of us who are considered more attractive get benefits. It’s been proven in countless studies and illustrated by the media. Mainstream movies, TV shows, as well as romance literature rarely focus on the romantic hero or heroine’s fantastic personality and ignore their humpbacks […]


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smut vs my life

21Jun12

The title of my blog notwithstanding, I haven’t written much, if anything, about smut. I was thinking about this today. Well, I was thinking about smut. I enjoy reading in many genres; and when I read romance, whether or not it’s erotic, I tend to fantasize. It stops at fantasy, though. It’s doubtful whether the […]


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understand me?

01Mar12

Did you ever wish you had an instruction manual for someone? I wrote one for myself a few years ago. It was interesting to look back on this and see what is the same and what has changed in the past six years. What I wish you knew about me. 2/2/06 


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