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my friend, with benefits

20Nov15

I moved two years ago. There’s a story, but I don’t want to tell it yet. I found myself in a new place, with very few friends. I went on my trusty dating site, and had about the same level of success – almost none. But I did make one good friend. It’s been about […]


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more on casual sex

07Jan13

I had two adult experiences recently, neither of which resulted in a call back. One was what I would call “good” and the other, “bad.” Which begs the question of why? What makes an experience good or bad? It’s all casual, so what was the difference? I just figured it out. I’m an adult. I […]


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how sam got her groove back

21Oct12

I went on a dating website recently. Filled out the profile and cruised around looking for potential people to talk to. I was very casual in what I said, and I looked for like-minded people. I normally have better luck with the ones I contact first. Probably because I already think I might like them. […]


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smut vs my life

21Jun12

The title of my blog notwithstanding, I haven’t written much, if anything, about smut. I was thinking about this today. Well, I was thinking about smut. I enjoy reading in many genres; and when I read romance, whether or not it’s erotic, I tend to fantasize. It stops at fantasy, though. It’s doubtful whether the […]


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a girl crush

19Feb12

A disturbing thing happened recently. A lovely 14 year old girl told me that she has a crush on a girl. In this day and age, it’s not a big deal, so I said okay…? She seemed upset, so we sat down to talk about it. I asked lots of questions and she gave me […]


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